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Calm me Lord
Odd as it may sound, learning how to relax is key to staying relaxed. It sounds obvious, but a person in a state of anxiety finds it hard to relax. An overactive and anxious mind is prone to worry, even trying to sleep at night, tucked up in bed can be a time of tension. It is important to look at what relaxation is: it’s the opposite of anxiety, namely a feeling of calm, peace and tranquility. So why is it so hard to achiieve?
There is an expectation for anxious people that to be relaxed you need to be quiet. Well, this can be true for many, but for some the problem with this is for an anxious person they are feeling emotions of fear: imagine that you were in the jungle and you were being hunted by a tiger, you may be quiet but you certainly wouldn’t be relaxed! That is how it feels for many people with anxiety, feeling 'on edge', even though they might be putting their feet up. This feeling of being 'on edge' can lead to outbursts of anger or frustration due to a build up of anxiety chemicals, and anxious thoughts. Often people feel more relaxed after emptying their thoughts to find peace, a sort of meditation. Meditating on a passage from the Bible helps some people. Sometimes people with anxiety need to find relaxation in some kind of activity that take the mind off their anxiety; even a game of football can be relaxing to an anxious person as they are burning off the chemicals in the blood that cause tension, and releasing natural 'feel good' hormones. People often say they feel relaxed after exercise. (But do remember to consult your Doctor before exercising if it is new to you)
There are many conventional ways to relax from listening to music to painting or even just watching TV. As Christians we can find relaxation in praying and spending time in the company of God, reading the Bible is a great comfort, and if you have God TV, or can get podcasts or worship music for your MP3 player, and if you’re anxious during the night, listening to or watching these can really help.
A simple prayer:
Dear Jesus, I thank you and put my trust in you, you are always at my side even when feeling desperate; I know that you will never let me down, forgive me for the times that I have disappointed you, guide me and teach me,Please help me to relax, fill me with your power, I pray for healing and peace in the love and assurance that you died and rose again for me, amen
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